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Wednesday, March 5, 2014

The Big 3-0

I'm thirty!

Holy crap. How did that happen?!

In all seriousness, 30 has been pretty great so far. For my actual birthday, Bo and I went to dinner at Sotto Sotto, an Italian restaurant right down the street from us that had been on our must-go-to list for far too long. It exceeded all our expectations which is saying a lot since we had it pretty hyped up. And to top it off, they offered a complimentary birthday dessert - the way to my heart.

A few of my favorite things: wine, meats & cheeses, tuna, seafood risotto, duck ragu, and veal chop. Delicious!



It's no secret, I love birthdays. Mine, yours, anyone's. And really any excuse for any kind of celebration. My twenties were filled with mostly keg parties and big group dinners with girlfriends and fancy dinners with Bo to celebrate my birthday. I've spent almost every birthday of the past decade (plus a few more) with Adrienne, my birthday buddy. We are exactly one week apart so we've had many joint birthday parties over the years. Last year, we closed out our twenties on her golden birthday when I visited her in Chicago. Lucky for me she moved to Atlanta a few months ago so this time neither of us had to travel. And as much as we would have loved another big birthday blow-out to ring in our thirties, we instead decided to have a small family-style weekend. How mature. We must be thirty after all. 



The Atlanta Winter Beerfest at the Masquerade was over the weekend in between our birthdays, which we clearly took as a sign that we must attend. It is not to be confused with the Winter Beer Carnival where we nearly died of frostbite two years ago, since it was held outside (they finally wised up and moved that one to the springtime this year). I promised Leslie this one was different and that it would be better, so I crossed my fingers and it turned out to be pretty awesome. They had a great setup in all the different rooms inside, with tented/heated areas outside, plenty of beer for everyone, and live music. It was such a fun day.




Adrienne's cousins flew in for the weekend, as well as my siblings and their significant others. I didn't realize it until later but it was actually the first time Leslie, Mike, Paul, Sarah, Bo and I were all in Atlanta together. I couldn't have asked for a better birthday crew! (Leslie took the only group photo of us so I'll add that in later otherwise I'll never get around to posting this! hint, hint, darling sister, last minute notice I know, pleaseandthankyou)



Leslie has visited me in Atlanta every year around my birthday, and almost every year it happens to be the coldest weekend of the entire year. I'm not sure why she keeps coming back, but I'm glad that she does. Thankfully this year it was a pretty mild weekend before all the snowstorms came through (that would have been epically disastrous for these Floridians...). And hopefully by next year she will once again forget that it's winter in January.




We also ran into a bunch of Chi O girlfriends from college, and as the birthday song goes "may you drink a hundred beers..." Obviously.  No coincidence that we always seem to reunite at these beer festivals. Cheers, ladies!




After the beerfest, we came home and ordered pizza before heading out to Highland Tap. They make great martinis and it was definitely a "thirties" bar as compared to our regular spots here in town. It was a welcome change. 

Shots! Ummm sorry kids, I'm not 21 anymore... haha

Our last stop of the night was to the Clermont Lounge , a classy landmark establishment in Atlanta. No pictures are allowed, which is unfortunate because we had a celebrity sighting! Jennifer Lawrence and Liam Hemsworth were also there that night (clearly to wish us a happy birthday! kidding). But it's probably a good thing we have no pictures from this point on. *Some* of us may have had a few too many beverages...and some others didn't quite make it the entire night... I won't name any names, but in the end we all survived.  :)  And it was glaringly obvious to me that I am definitely the oldest in the family. Seeing as I am the only one to have learned my limits over the years, I made sure to have a water in between each drink, and was the least hungover the next day. Dear 30, I am ready for you!



Every other year people wish a generic happy birthday. This year, most people wished me a happy thirtieth birthday and seemed to have something to say about it - opinions, stories, advice, etc. The funniest thing to me was that generally, everyone under 30 told me I was getting old and asked if I was sad to no longer be in my twenties, and everyone who was 30+ told me how my thirties will be even better than my twenties. I have a feeling the best is yet to come :)





Saturday, February 22, 2014

Happy Holidays

Rewinding to a few months ago - our 2013 holiday season!

Carolina Christmas

We spent Christmas with Bo's family this year up in North Carolina. Lucky for me, I also got to spend it with my brother, Paul. He lives about 20 minutes away from Bo's sister Charlotte (who lives in Charlotte, so convenient!) and her family, who were hosting Christmas. We stayed with Paul, his girlfriend Sarah, their two roommates and their FOUR dogs. Lot of people and dogs and total chaos, which is just our style and we loved it. Thankfully they have a huge yard and everyone got along great.




A few days before Christmas, we saw the Nutcracker with Bo's mom and sister Dudley at the Belk Theater in Uptown Charlotte. It had probably been 20 years since either of us had seen it, and we thoroughly enjoyed it though were reminded that we are just not fans of ballet. So it might be another 20 years before go again ;)



Aside from the ballet and a few family dinners, we rarely left the house. We spent days in our pajamas just watching Christmas movies...



and painting Christmas cookies, definitely one of our favorite (newer) traditions...

mine are on the top row, Bo's are on the bottom. Obviously.

and watching all the dogs play together (or sunbathe)...






and logging many hours on the couch with the dogs...



Charlotte and her husband Doug hosted an absolutely wonderful Christmas. This was actually my first Christmas with them, ever! They always spend Christmas with Doug's side of the family, who I finally got to meet this year. Their Christmas traditions reminded me so much of my own family's, so it was comforting to have a feeling of home. We went to Christmas mass, where our nephew Stuart was a shepard in the nativity scene, followed by a big family dinner at their home with presents and music and great company. Major fail - never took a family photo!


how fun is their Santa spread?! I need this.


Christmas morning was also very similar to my family's - stockings, Santa gifts, opening presents one by one in our pajamas. Charlotte made a breakfast feast for us, and afterward my brother Paul came over and we FaceTimed with the rest of our family. Leslie's in-laws get along with my parents SO well and were nice enough to invite them up to Daytona so they didn't have to spend Christmas without any their children, for the first time in 30 years.


return of the Christmas pajamas!

And Bo's family kindly invited Paul to spend the day with us, as Sarah is a nurse and had to work; otherwise it would have been Paul's first Christmas alone, ever. So we all got to be with a new mixed family which turned out to be pretty awesome. After our family phone call, we drove up to Blowing Rock to spend the evening with Bo's parents and enjoyed a long day of cooking, drinking, and eating. Overall, a pretty fantastic Christmas.




6th Engagement Anniversary

Every year we have a steak dinner on December 30th to celebrate the anniversary of our engagement. (I posted our engagement story here.) This year we went to KR SteakBar, which was a phenomenal meal, served Italian-style with several small courses. Coincidentally, it is right across the street from our old apartment where Bo proposed six years ago. Such great memories.



New Years Eve

We had a very, very low-key night at home to ring in the new year for once. It was actually a really nice change from our nights on the town the past several years. Dudley came over with her pup, Madison, and we all enjoyed lots of good food and champagne, a few movies, and we watched the ball drop on TV. Happy 2014!!



Hope you all enjoyed the holidays as well! :)







Ghosts of Christmas Past:
Christmas 2011 
Christmas 2012